{"id":1130,"date":"2016-01-26T14:45:37","date_gmt":"2016-01-26T13:45:37","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/talakademin.nu\/?p=1130"},"modified":"2016-01-26T14:45:37","modified_gmt":"2016-01-26T13:45:37","slug":"ar-du-en-kontrollperson","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/talakademin.nu\/index.php\/2016\/01\/26\/ar-du-en-kontrollperson\/","title":{"rendered":"\u00c4r du en &#8221;kontrollperson&#8221;?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Date:\u00a0Sun\u00a0Jan\u00a017,\u00a02016\u00a04:50\u00a0pm\u00a0((PST))<\/p>\n<p>Ruth\u00a0has\u00a0&#8221;controlled&#8221;\u00a0her\u00a0need\u00a0to\u00a0control&#8221;. If\u00a0every\u00a0PWS\u00a0learned\u00a0to\u00a0do\u00a0that,\u00a0I\u00a0am\u00a0guessing\u00a0that\u00a0at\u00a0least\u00a075% would\u00a0be\u00a0naturally\u00a0fluent\u00a0for\u00a0the\u00a0remainder\u00a0of\u00a0their\u00a0lives. Indeed,\u00a0in\u00a0all\u00a0likelihood.\u00a0when\u00a0the\u00a0PWS\u00a0controls\u00a0their\u00a0need\u00a0to control,\u00a0all\u00a0fear\u00a0of\u00a0stuttering,\u00a0all\u00a0fear\u00a0of\u00a0being\u00a0found\u00a0out,\u00a0all fear\u00a0of\u00a0being\u00a0called\u00a0a\u00a0retard,\u00a0all\u00a0shame,\u00a0all\u00a0anger,\u00a0all\u00a0hurt, all\u00a0pain,\u00a0etc.,\u00a0will\u00a0be\u00a0gone. Wow!!!\u00a0take\u00a0some\u00a0time\u00a0if\u00a0you\u00a0haven&#8217;t\u00a0already\u00a0done\u00a0so,\u00a0and\u00a0write down\u00a0what\u00a0would\u00a0change\u00a0in\u00a0your\u00a0life\u00a0if\u00a0you\u00a0&#8221;controlled\u00a0your\u00a0need to\u00a0control&#8221;. This\u00a0is\u00a0serious.\u00a0Please\u00a0take\u00a0it\u00a0as\u00a0such. Bob<br \/>\nBob<\/p>\n<p>I know what you&#8217;re saying, but I&#8217;d caution you about\u00a0using the word &#8221;control&#8221;, even this situation.\u00a0 It can have a totally opposite effect than you&#8217;re looking for.\u00a0 How can you say the same thing but in more positive terms and without using the word &#8221;control.&#8221;<br \/>\nJohn<\/p>\n<p>Det h\u00e4r med kontroll finner jag intressant. Jag m\u00e5ste s\u00e5ledes \u00a0klara av att \u00f6verge kontrollfunktionen f\u00f6r att f\u00e5 flyt i mitt tal. Den h\u00e4r vanliga kontrollfunktionen som man\/jag\/m\u00e5nga andra\u00a0mer eller mindre omedvetet aktiverar i sitt dagliga beteende kan enligt ovan st\u00e4lla till besv\u00e4r n\u00e4r jag talar, &#8211; och som jag f\u00f6rst\u00e5r &#8211; spelar golf, tennis, eller idkar b\u00e5gskytte. F\u00f6r att n\u00e4mna n\u00e5gra exempel.<br \/>\nJohn Harrison p\u00e5minner ovan om att kontroll utg\u00f6r ett hinder. V\u00e4rt att l\u00e4gga p\u00e5 minnet!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Date:\u00a0Sun\u00a0Jan\u00a017,\u00a02016\u00a04:50\u00a0pm\u00a0((PST)) Ruth\u00a0has\u00a0&#8221;controlled&#8221;\u00a0her\u00a0need\u00a0to\u00a0control&#8221;. If\u00a0every\u00a0PWS\u00a0learned\u00a0to\u00a0do\u00a0that,\u00a0I\u00a0am\u00a0guessing\u00a0that\u00a0at\u00a0least\u00a075% would\u00a0be\u00a0naturally\u00a0fluent\u00a0for\u00a0the\u00a0remainder\u00a0of\u00a0their\u00a0lives. Indeed,\u00a0in\u00a0all\u00a0likelihood.\u00a0when\u00a0the\u00a0PWS\u00a0controls\u00a0their\u00a0need\u00a0to control,\u00a0all\u00a0fear\u00a0of\u00a0stuttering,\u00a0all\u00a0fear\u00a0of\u00a0being\u00a0found\u00a0out,\u00a0all fear\u00a0of\u00a0being\u00a0called\u00a0a\u00a0retard,\u00a0all\u00a0shame,\u00a0all\u00a0anger,\u00a0all\u00a0hurt, all\u00a0pain,\u00a0etc.,\u00a0will\u00a0be\u00a0gone. 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